May 8, 2008

can i seriously be with you?

i'm thinking if i come back after 2 years, will we still be together? as in together, yeah, together.

going to Perth, this decision, with a reasonable reason, which sounds unreasonable to you, i seriously thought about it for a very long time.

yeah, u said u already have the preparation that i'm going. however, i still feel a lil bit of fear.

i can't stop thinking of everything. things that might happen, might stop me.

i seriously hope that you're going with me too, but things don't go as the way i wish to.


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Deng said...

You not going to work there for a year for experience ah? Employers just luuurrrve people with experience abroad.

I'm going three or four years ah. Worse than you right.. If you guys have the preparation, the communication, the effort to keep each other, then I don't think it should be a problem. =) Read up on articles reagarding long-distance relationships la. They do help. Gives you an idea what you can do to surprise him, how to get through it, etc.

-Littlenicky- said...

long distance relationship wor.... very san fu wan lor =(

i tot last time u said will be going aussie for only a year? i thought that would be fine.. but 2 yrs is a bit long right?

I lagi kesian lor. Fatty might not come back summor..... sigh

_VeL_ said...

deng:
i plan to stay there one more year for work lor. after my 3rd year. plan only, don't know will get employ anot.

we actually have the same thinking. might not be a problem. but i think im the only one that scared. he doesn't seems scared.

_VeL_ said...

nicole:
ya, i thought of going one year b4. but feel like getting some experience on work only come back.

2years are really long. seriously hope that he could come along. but, u know. his family kinda different from me. situation doesn't allow him to do so. sigh =(

Deng said...

I wished Bernard could come along to. He even mentioned that he will work there after he graduates. But turns out I'll be there for about 2 1/2 years only. Including one year for work. So we'll see la.

And Wayne seems pretty confident in the relationship. That's good. Get him to explain to you why he's comfortable and cool about it la. It'll help you to understand.

Whatever he's thinking can make him not worry about it, no harm letting you know about it ah.

_VeL_ said...

deng:
i think everyone knows that he is kinda noob, in everything. lol. can say he is 'one-straight-heart' to me.haha.

we have talked bout it. maybe i just over-worrying. i should be confident in our relationship too. maybe i'm not used to be without him already. =0

-Littlenicky- said...

aiya at least u all can go.

I can go lah oversea but then dumb bird going canada and in canada their accounting syllabus n everything is different -___-

summor im studying accounts wor... go oversea very not worth it wan lor

and summor u both so long edi... dont lah just because u going aussie then 'san tong'. I'm waiting to get ur 'hei tip' wan lor

Cathy C said...

yalo..i also waiting for u hei tip...hehehee..=)

_VeL_ said...

nicole:
why he is not coming back wor? his parents going to migrate there meh? ask him sponsor u there lar. pay all ur living expenses. haha

'hei tip' ar? u might have to wait very long more. lol. probably 'san long' is not him dy leh. 'choi!' haha

_VeL_ said...

deng:
*shake head too* haha
i think we seriously will stay forever huh..

everyone is asking me when are we getting married. lol. so obvious meh? =)

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